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Nachman Oz's avatar

Singapore and Hong Kong have an even lower fertility.

Mothers and carers are also not exactly fungible.

Outsourcing care from one woman to another is fraught with unavoidable personal and economic trade offs.

Maybe robots can help.

But considering the Nordic states where women are freest to choose and have the financial ability, they're more inclined to choose to stay home and be mothers to their kids. Which seems quite intuitive - because otherwise what's the point?

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Nam Pham's avatar

This is quite an unexpected post from you Nan, a welcome change from the CDR realm, but I have to admit I found it creative (thanks chatGPT?), and also funny ;-) I have two kids (7 and 4) and also a 20 year old step daughter, and probably a salary way lower than yours but I would recommend not to worry too much. When You have kids, you realize that true unconditional love (yes the one that parents give to their children) will change your life, and you will (yes) be less interested in some other activities (drinks?). As a result you’ll adjust and find a balance between your life as a parent, and your life as an individual. Granted, I had my kids quite late (in my forties) which would probably be a bit too late for a woman (this is not a misogynistic comment, just the reality of nature). Anyway, enjoy your life without kid, but to wait too long to have one if you think your life would be more fulfilled with one (or more)!

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